Friday, September 28, 2012 \\ 0 comment(s)
People easily affected
I learn about dignity. How important it is to keep our dignity. When we talk about dignity don't limit your scope just on what we used to wear because sometimes we must wider our acknowledge to another aspects if it's related to this kind of thing
I'm not saying that I'm good enough to give a sentence to other people. But at least, I try. I'm still young, and there a lot more that I can change, a lot more that I can gain. Is it. So, it's about our attitude. I just want to congratulate if you manage to cover your 'body' with a nice outfit, but it's nicer if you can cover your attitude.
Based on my observation, some people used to talk about other people. Either artist or friends or teachers. But some people are more into this kind of 'what is happening around right now' which is good as I think we gain something and that topic is more interested compared to talk-behind about someone which is bad. I think. No offense.
Talk-behind, I really detest this kind of thing. I don't care if people want to talk-behind me as I'm not affected at all. How ugly I look or how weird I am, I don't take is as a serious or major thing that I should handle, I have a lot more to think about. It's actually when we talk badly about other people as we are not satisfied with them, we are actually envied. True?
Sorry to say, but I don't like if people give a bash or give a stupid giggle on how she looks like, for instance, if there's a girl wearing heavy make-up and there's this one group staring at her being syncs and talk something that might hurt that person's feeling. It's a good way if people that are not satisfied on how she puts her make-up on her face, facing that girl and said to that girl that she puts too much make-up and that makes her look weird. Or just ignore her, is it hard? It's not our problem what kind of dress they are wearing or what type of powder they put on their face. Grr
And the real thing is, please and please, don't believe too much to people. How wara' or how genius or how good or how nice that person is, these things can never give you a word that they are totally like what you see. I'm just worried with this situation, really. Many girls nowadays are so into, I mean SO INTO about HUSBAND or whatsoever and they were like "that guy looked totally islamic". How they know that person are Islamic just because they see by that guy's appearance? Or if there's a guy being nice to her and that girl was like "awww that guy likes me. He's so nice". Pathetic. This is the thing, the more you believe on guy, the more you will heart-broke because your expectation about how nice he is, might be too high. So, take care of our attitude and always improve ourselves to be better in future. InsyaALLAH
"A bad attitude is like a flat tire. You cannot go anywhere unless you change it"